All Stories Matter - Three Mothers, Friends and Successful Women

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In this heartfelt episode of 'All Stories Matter,' host Marvinetta Penn welcomes back the insightful Amber Walker, along with her sister Adiah and friend Cierra, as they delve into their unique life stories. Amber recounts her journey from Detroit to motherhood, overcoming challenging relationships, and pursuing education in biomedical sciences. Adiah shares her upbringing in Chicago, navigating a corporate and military family background, and finding her path in business. Meanwhile, Cierra, a Kalamazoo native, bravely opens up about her struggles with mental health, financial independence, and discovering her passion for entrepreneurship in beauty. Together, these women illustrate the power of resilience and authenticity, proving that every story holds value and inspiration.

Chapters

Introduction and Welcome (00:00:15)
Marvinetta Woodley Penn introduces herself and welcomes the audience to the podcast 'All Stories Matter'.

Marvinetta Woodley Penn, also known simply as Marvinetta, welcomes back the audience to the podcast 'All Stories Matter', a production of Joy on Life's Journey. She greets the audience depending on their time zone and expresses her happiness to be back in the studio after some time. Marvinetta mentions she has three amazing guests with interesting stories to share and emphasizes the importance of every story.
The Importance of Stories and Journals (00:01:00)
Marvinetta discusses the importance of stories, journals, and authentic communication.

Marvinetta reflects on how people used to write letters and keep journals, which historians use to understand past times. She contrasts this with modern communication like tweets and emojis, questioning their ability to capture true emotions. Marvinetta emphasizes the value of authentic storytelling and living truthfully, encouraging others to share their stories without shame as they shape who we are.
Introducing the Guests (00:02:52)
Marvinetta introduces the guests: Amber, Aya, and Sierra, and invites them to share their stories.

Marvinetta introduces her guests for the episode: Amber, Aya, and Sierra. She mentions that Amber has been on the show before and has an interesting story to share. Marvinetta is eager to hear about Amber's journey, her family, and her experiences, and she invites Amber to start sharing her story.
Amber Walker's Story (00:03:34)
Amber Walker begins her story, talking about her upbringing and family dynamics.

Amber Walker introduces herself, sharing her background of growing up in Detroit, Michigan, and her family dynamics, including having a summer sister. She talks about her early life, her parents, and the unique relationship with her sister who would visit in the summer. Amber gives a glimpse into her family history and the connections that shaped her early years.
Amber's Educational Journey and Challenges (00:06:36)
Amber discusses her educational path, challenges of early motherhood, and her journey through college.

Amber continues her story, describing her educational journey, starting at Tennessee State University and then transferring to Western Michigan University due to family circumstances. She shares the challenges she faced as a young mother, navigating college life with limited support, and the determination to continue her education while managing her responsibilities as a single parent.
Overcoming Personal Challenges (00:10:00)
Amber talks about her first marriage, the abusive relationship, and finding strength in community.

Amber opens up about her first marriage, which was abusive, and how she found the strength to leave and rebuild her life. She highlights the mental and emotional challenges she faced and the importance of community support in overcoming them. Amber also mentions her journals as a tool for reflection and healing.
Aya's Story and Upbringing (00:12:35)
Aya shares her background, growing up in Chicago, her family dynamics, and her journey to Kalamazoo.

Aya introduces herself, discussing her upbringing in Chicago with her mother and stepfather, and her experience as a 'summer sister' visiting Detroit. She talks about her parents' careers, her military brat experience, and how she ended up in Kalamazoo for college at Western Michigan University. Aya reflects on her diverse family dynamics and the influences that shaped her.
Aya's Educational and Personal Journey (00:19:34)
Aya discusses her decision to attend Western Michigan University, her first marriage, and motherhood.

Aya shares her decision to attend Western Michigan University due to its location and her father's alma mater. She reflects on her first marriage, which she describes as a 'practice marriage', and the experience of becoming a mother while finishing college. Aya provides insights into her early adult life, navigating responsibilities, and learning from her experiences.
Sierra's Background and Family Story (00:26:00)
Sierra introduces herself, her family background, and the challenges her family faced during her upbringing.

Sierra talks about her upbringing in Kalamazoo, being the oldest daughter in a family with young parents. She describes the challenges her family faced, including her father's health issues and the financial struggles after her parents separated. Sierra reflects on how these experiences shaped her perspective and the survival mindset she adopted during her teenage years.
Education and Survival (00:30:55)
The speaker reflects on how education was not a primary focus during their upbringing; survival and taking care of immediate needs were more important.

The speaker reminisces about their childhood, noting that education wasn't prioritized because the focus was primarily on survival and managing present circumstances. This shaped their early outlook on life.
The Promise of College (00:31:10)
While in high school, the speaker hears about the Kalamazoo Promise, which offers a chance to go to college, but initially doesn't fully consider it as an option for themselves.

As a sophomore at Kalamazoo Central, the speaker becomes aware of the 'Kalamazoo Promise', a program that allows students to attend college, yet they are hesitant to embrace it due to personal doubts and lack of encouragement from teachers.
Teacher Encouragement (00:32:09)
The speaker had an art teacher who encouraged them to consider art schools, but this encouragement was not enough to make a significant impact.

The speaker recalls an art teacher, Mr. Vogue, who encouraged them to think about art schools. However, the teacher's support was limited to the context of art, and the speaker felt they couldn't relate to him outside of that subject.
Graduation and Early Independence (00:32:43)
After graduating high school, the speaker moves in with their boyfriend, following a family pattern, and finds themselves financially supporting the household.

Following high school graduation, the speaker moves in with their boyfriend, as was customary among the women in their family, taking on the primary financial responsibilities while their boyfriend fails to contribute.
Struggles and Survival (00:34:01)
The speaker becomes pregnant, works to support their family, and starts attending school while juggling the challenges of being a young mother.

Facing numerous challenges, the speaker juggles work, school, and motherhood. Despite the difficulties, they find ways to navigate resources and begin attending Kalamazoo Valley, utilizing support programs like the Kalamazoo Promise.
Finding Passion and Entrepreneurship (00:35:00)
The speaker discovers a passion for beauty and entrepreneurship, leading them to pursue a career in makeup and hair, while still feeling in survival mode.

Through starting and stopping college, the speaker finds a deep passion for beauty, leading them to attend beauty school and pursue entrepreneurship in makeup and hair. Despite success, they continue to operate in survival mode.
Childhood Memories and Self-Worth (00:36:11)
A childhood memory of feeling special and filled with light influences the speaker's sense of self-worth and purpose.

Reflecting on a childhood memory, the speaker recalls feeling a profound sense of specialness and inner light while playing outside. This memory has continued to influence their sense of self-worth and drive throughout life.
Therapy and Healing (00:38:02)
The speaker begins therapy, which plays a pivotal role in their healing process, helping them find belief in themselves and their dreams.

Through therapy, the speaker finds healing and validation, as a supportive therapist encourages them to pursue their dreams. This therapeutic journey helps them navigate resources and nurture their inner light.
Parenting and Legacy (00:53:02)
The speaker reflects on the joy and challenges of parenting, highlighting the resilience and success of their children despite past hardships.

Reflecting on their parenting journey, the speaker expresses pride in their children's resilience and success. Despite facing trauma and challenges, their children have grown into remarkable individuals, a testament to the speaker's growth and efforts as a parent.
Reflecting on Personal Growth (01:01:59)
A young man reflects on his past decisions and gains confidence, considering going back to school.

The speaker discusses how the young man initially left home for the wrong reasons but now, after reflecting, sees himself in a new light. He has gained confidence and is considering returning to school to fulfill his potential.
Academic Pursuits and Family Traits (01:02:23)
The middle child is in college, studying finance, and shares nurturing traits with the speaker.

The speaker talks about the middle child who is currently a freshman at Grand Valley State, studying finance. They mention how this child is very nurturing, similar to the speaker, and is thriving in an honors college, liking to learn new things.
Encouraging Social Growth (01:02:56)
The speaker encourages their child to socialize more and come out of their shell, beyond video games.

The speaker expresses the importance of encouraging their child, who is a junior and now the oldest at home, to socialize more. They emphasize the need to interact with others beyond just playing video games.
Creative and Outgoing Daughter (01:03:37)
The youngest daughter is outgoing and involved in a creative program, showing growth and creativity.

The speaker describes their youngest daughter as outgoing and part of a program called the Merc Head Explorers, where she learns videography, photography, and editing. She is creative like her father and is growing rapidly, almost reaching the speaker's height.
Parenting and Personal Evolution (01:04:32)
The speaker reflects on being a better parent now than before, offering support and encouragement to their child.

The speaker discusses their journey of personal evolution, acknowledging past parenting shortcomings and committing to being a better parent now. They stress to their child that they have support and can achieve anything.
Teaching Respect and Leadership (01:05:22)
The speaker instills values of respect, leadership, and accountability in their child, encouraging them to be seen.

The speaker emphasizes teaching their child to uphold the right thing, not be afraid to be seen, and to lead with respect. They encourage apologizing and being different, promoting the idea of being a leader and standing out.
Closing Thoughts and Future Plans (01:06:00)
The host and guests conclude the show with gratitude and anticipation for future episodes.

The show wraps up with expressions of gratitude from the host and guests, highlighting the special nature of the episode. They hint at future plans and wisdom to be shared in the upcoming episodes, encouraging viewers to share stories.